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failing everything
| Wed, 10-22-2008 - 11:03pm |
this could be about a failed marriage but honestly everything is failing. My marriage of 2 years, my career is in transition and I am having issues conceiving. It seems that at 40 everything my life is unraveling. I busted my tail for almost 20 years working, SERVING and PLEASING everyone in my world. A product of a divorced family at an early age, I had to grow up VERY YOUNG and learn to navigate the world. Considered a maverick yet a late bloomer, I prided myself in being an independent woman never having to ask for help. It now seems that after all these years of SHOWING up, my body, mind and spirit are tired. I am too exhausted to now be married to my young, feisty, nasty, mean overly sexed young husband. This isn't what he bargained for..and I don't have the energy to battle (at least twice a week) his insecurity, his need to have me be present when I have to work late AGAIN, OR my lack of sex drive. I could write on and on...but I think for the most part you get the gist. Any advice, ..anyone?

Please do not have kids with a man that you describe as mean and more. If you are too tired to be his wife then you are too tired to be a mom right now.
Does he want to change? Does he want to save the marriage?
Welcome to the board atherbest,
You gotten good advice about not having kids with this man that you describe as mean. Also good advice about seeing a doctor for a check up.
I get it!