Faking it
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Faking it
| Tue, 02-17-2004 - 12:59am |
Well lets get right to the point. I've been involved with a great guy for the past three months, and I have broken one of the cardinal rules of sex: faking orgasms. When I got together with this guy he told me flat out that he would never want me to fake it but I guess I really wanted him to feel that he was pleasing me. Now I am stuck in a situation where I feel that if I tell him what I need there is going to be no way around spilling the beans, and the guilt I have from leading him on in that sense is making it even more difficult for me to enjoy sex. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can work around this issue without making him feel like crap and without me looking like a total idiot (not to mention decietful person in general)? I know it sounds horrible. I've never had this problem before and it is such a sensitive issue, any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Have you posted on the Let's Talk about Sex board.
Carrie
Good luck!