falling for him too fast
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falling for him too fast
| Wed, 05-19-2004 - 5:03pm |
I met a guy about 2 weeks ago. We have been talking non stop for the past two weeks. We went out two times and we had an amazing time together.
He calls me every night after work and I got the feeling that he was really interested in me. He is so affectionate. Always holding my hand when we are together. Telling me that he misses me all the time. He definately showed me during the past two weeks that he enjoyed my company and that he liked me and was attracted to me. That is what was going on until two days ago.
At that time, he didn't call me so I decided to send him an email. He called me to tell me that he got my email but he was too tired from work. Thats understandable. He sounded different though. I don't know, call it woman's intiuition.
The next day he called me and asked to meet with me during the week since I had a day off during the week. We agreed to meet in the middle of the week.
I haven't heard from him since. It has been two days. His phone is disconnected and he didn't answer my latest email. I know he was experiencing some financal difficulties and I am not sure if that is the reason of why he is avoiding me. The whole male macho thing. Our jobs were discussed and it was determined that I probably make more money than him. That doesn't bother me because I like him and want to be with him as a person. Money is not important to me. But I am not sure if that is important to him and if that is the reason he is avoiding me.
I know this sounds childish but I am confused. I don't know how else to reach him to see if he is OK, or he lost interest in me. I guess my insecurities from my previous dating experiences make me think this way.
Once again, I have fallen for a guy too fast before the relationship had even began.
I know there is nothing I can do at this point but wait. But, how long do I wait. Do I just give up or wait to see what happens. Should I email him again expressing my concern or just wait for his next move.. if there is one.
I really like him and want to be with him and get to know him better.. and I thought I knew that he felt the same. I just hope that his financial troubles don't keep him away from me if that is the reason. I will rather find out that he lost interest than anything else.
He calls me every night after work and I got the feeling that he was really interested in me. He is so affectionate. Always holding my hand when we are together. Telling me that he misses me all the time. He definately showed me during the past two weeks that he enjoyed my company and that he liked me and was attracted to me. That is what was going on until two days ago.
At that time, he didn't call me so I decided to send him an email. He called me to tell me that he got my email but he was too tired from work. Thats understandable. He sounded different though. I don't know, call it woman's intiuition.
The next day he called me and asked to meet with me during the week since I had a day off during the week. We agreed to meet in the middle of the week.
I haven't heard from him since. It has been two days. His phone is disconnected and he didn't answer my latest email. I know he was experiencing some financal difficulties and I am not sure if that is the reason of why he is avoiding me. The whole male macho thing. Our jobs were discussed and it was determined that I probably make more money than him. That doesn't bother me because I like him and want to be with him as a person. Money is not important to me. But I am not sure if that is important to him and if that is the reason he is avoiding me.
I know this sounds childish but I am confused. I don't know how else to reach him to see if he is OK, or he lost interest in me. I guess my insecurities from my previous dating experiences make me think this way.
Once again, I have fallen for a guy too fast before the relationship had even began.
I know there is nothing I can do at this point but wait. But, how long do I wait. Do I just give up or wait to see what happens. Should I email him again expressing my concern or just wait for his next move.. if there is one.
I really like him and want to be with him and get to know him better.. and I thought I knew that he felt the same. I just hope that his financial troubles don't keep him away from me if that is the reason. I will rather find out that he lost interest than anything else.
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| Wed, 05-19-2004 - 5:20pm |
clearly the passion is there and both of you guys are interested. i personally think you guys have spent too much together, some of the original energy and ethusiasm might be burnt out. let him have his a couple days alone. let him be independent for a change and focus on just himself, not because he doesn't like you, but just because he needs to spend some time alone. and you too, do something nice for just yourself for a change. if he is still interested, he'd def. come back in no time. i wouldn't write an email expression your concern just yet, that might drive him further away for it shows that you don't trust him; don't worry yourself too much. if in a couple more days and you still haven't heard from him, then voice your concerns.
