Falling in love all the time!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2008
Falling in love all the time!
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 12:32pm

For the past 4 years I have been in 3 long term relationships. All of them with different types of men with different passions and personalities and I have been lucky enough to be in love with all of them. It seems that every time I leave one relationship, I end up meeting another amazing man, whom I almost immediately fall for and have a serious long term relationship. As I previously stated, This has been going on for 4 years now. Am I just lucky and finding great guys to have beautiful and loving companionship with? Or am I kidding myself and I'm not actually in love with them? All of my relationships have been wonderful full of respect giving and very healthy. At some point throughout them, I find myself wanting to marry them (all of them have reciprocated the feeling and some have taken action). All of my break ups have been healthy and understanding? Am I just lucky enough to be learning from each one or am i just being monogamally dependent?

o213mmp@gmail.com

Thanks!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 1:27pm

Welcome to the board o213mmp,


So, each relationship is about 1 yr and 4 months long and each one you've wanted to marry?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 1:40pm
For one of them we grew apart and wanted to travel to different places. We agreed trying long distance, but found skype too difficult to be the only way of communication. The other, there were problems with money, mostly because we handled things differently ( no way worse or better). The other kissed another girl when he was out drinking with friends, it was just a kiss, and he came home and told me right away and it put a huge strain on our relationship that being friends was the best option for us. He's still my business partner and we get along great.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 2:18pm
Dont know.