Falling out of love....

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Registered: 05-21-2003
Falling out of love....
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Fri, 01-02-2004 - 11:58am
Do you stay for the children? My H is a great dad. He just happens to be a lousy husband. We have lived seperate lives for the past few years. He loves me but I built up walls of anger and resentment over the years. Now we are fiends because he changed for the better. But I don't love him like a wife should love a husband. I' scared though. I love my son and want to do what's right. I can remember the day before our wedding. I wanted to call it off because I knew that I wasn't truely IN LOVE. I had been in so many bad relationships before. He was nice and kind. Now I feel like I have ruined his life and my sons. Any advice? Do I stay and make the best of it? Is this as good as it gets? Or do I leave and hope to find love that I long for?
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 01-02-2004 - 12:29pm

Hi


I've been exactly where you are.