Feel insecure and need to get over it
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Feel insecure and need to get over it
| Tue, 03-02-2004 - 7:27pm |
I have been here so many times, trying to get over the love of y life: Omar. However there is no need for that anymore because we are back together. i never thought that i was going to get the chanceto do things right again, b/c even though it was his fault i asted the way i did. i made many mistakes too. Anyhow, we are back together and so unbelievably happy. it's really surprising...but not perfect. Before my boyfriend and i went out, he had a girlfriend (obviously) and he was verymuch in love with her but she hurt him so they broke up. he later dated me and even though i knew he liked meand wanted to be with me, i always wondered if i was the rebound and worried he'd rather be with her than me. So i let that consume me and pressured him and it didn't help the relationship making it fallapart. i was devastated when we broke up; specially when i found out he went back to her. well it din't work out for them, or for me and the guy i was dating, and mne and Omar ended up together again. It was even better this time. We were in bliss. then we had a pregnancy scare and he got confused and i got insecure, so i dumped him. again i cried and was here at the message board trying to convince my self he was no good, but he's not. And now that we are back together and so happy i a here again because for some reason i cant get over my insecurity of him still wanting to be with her. we have been together for almost 2 years now and i cant get Her out of my head. He is the best guy in the world and he has never done anything to make me insecure. It's something that i have done my self, and i cant let it ruinmy relationship again. I know we love eachother and i know he wants to be w/ me. i also understand that everyone comes with baggage, so how do i get over these insecurities. i cant let that get in the way of my relationship anymore. what can i do to help ease my fears?

All the best !
Donna