Feelings for more than one man
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Feelings for more than one man
| Sun, 09-19-2004 - 6:33pm |
I have a problem. I have a wonderful husband whom I love dearly. But our sex life is a little on the slow side. but when its on it is awesome. My problem is this I work with all men and I am very attracted to one of them. And the attraction is felt back. I am not sure what to do? I have never had sex with anyone else. But I seem to be attracted to men more now. ANd I dont know what to do about it. I don't wan to leave my husband I love him.. please help

Two ideas from Pianoguy:
1. Locate a copy of your marriage vows...and reread the passage about "forsaking all others!" That WAS part of the original deal, wasn't it?
2. Enroll in an exercise class after work....perhaps all that sweating will release a few of those 'unused hormones' that are present inside your body?
Pianoguy
I see from your profile that you have two children. Please, for their sake, don't even consider infidelity. Don't risk destroying their family.
Reading material:
Gentlemen Start Her Engine And Keep It Running: 350 Easy Ways to Forever Supercharge Your Lady's Heart, Steven Andrew Guerrero
Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw
A Couple's Guide to Communication, John Mordechai Gottman
His Needs, Her Needs by Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr
Mars and Venus in the Bedroom, John Gray
Carrie