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Fiance not interested in wedding
| Fri, 07-30-2004 - 4:05pm |
Please tell me if I'm crazy! My fiance and I have opened a new restaurant, and it has taken away all of our together time. Since the business has opened, he has become obsessed with work. He is constantly stressed, and no matter what I do- I can not make him happy. He has had absolutely nothing to do with our upcoming wedding (in six weeks). I, however, am planning it myself, and wish desperately to discuss things with him. I feel like he does not want to talk about anything but work. It has created a strain on our relationship, and I feel like we are merely business partners, not life partners. What do I do?

You ARE business partners...but unless there's some effort on his side, you probably will NEVER be a COUPLE!
Are your personal and professional relationships intertwined? Can you function as a co-owner with him...and skip the thought of being a wife?
If your fiancee has limited interest in marriage before the wedding.......how do you think he'll react after the two of you have said: "I DO?"
Pianoguy
Focus on what you want the wedding to be. It will be beautiful and he'll be there and supportive and happy he didn't have to do it and proud that you did such a good job.
Hope you have a beautiful day!!
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Pianoguy got the impression that the man was completely consumed by the business...and that the marriage between the "work partners" was more of a formality to him...than something that he truly wanted?
Granted...men get caught up in the working environment and often don't respond the way our "female counterparts" want us to. But I sensed from this post that marriage wasn't as important to him as it was to her.
I've been mistaken before...but this is my "take" here.
Pianoguy
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