Fiancee' never spends time with me
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Fiancee' never spends time with me
| Wed, 10-20-2004 - 7:42pm |
I've been with my fiancee' for about 7 months.we've known each other for 5 years. for about 2 months he hasn't been spending time with me, doesn't want to be around me.i've asked him if something was bothering him and i get the same answer over and over nothings wrong.he doesn't pay attention to me. the only time he does pay attention to me is when he wants to have sex. somebody please help me.

Edited 10/20/2004 8:02 pm ET ET by batharine
Take him for a walk, if you can get him to be seen with you - tell him 'I'm noticed a change in our relationship, when I try to discuss it and figure out if there is a problem, it is dimissed. I would like your help in understanding what has changed...can you help me?
Let him talk. Don't defend yourself, just listen. If he blames you, or says anything negative, let him vent, then he may tell you what is really bothering him.
If he doesn't give you a real answer, suggest pre-martial counseling and deal with it there. If that's a no also, then you will know how serious he is about the relationship and upcoming marriage.
Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie