Fighting for Competition...help!

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Registered: 07-05-2006
Fighting for Competition...help!
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Fri, 12-23-2011 - 11:42am

I feel like I am always fighting with my boyfriend's friend for competition. Nobody likes this friend of his, he doesn't have a job, a car, and has a kid and constantly is bugging us and wants to always stay the night. We constantly have to give him rides everywhere because he has no way of getting around and lives in the country so if he comes to town from a ride from his mom it's hard for him to get back home unless we take him so my boyfriend lets him stay the night at our apartment all of the time and I don't like it at all. This friend of his is the only reason my boyfriend and I fight and I don't know what to do about it but I'm tired of his friend always staying the night and causing problems. What can I do about this? Help!

Also, his friend is very messy and stays at the apartment alone even when we're not here because we're working and I don't think he needs to be here when we're not I don't trust people alone in our apartment we have too many valuables.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Sat, 12-24-2011 - 9:43pm
The presence of the friend is the living arrangement to which Undercovercrab refers.
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Registered: 05-18-2009
Sun, 12-25-2011 - 9:08am

Yup!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 12-25-2011 - 11:45pm

You just don't get it, do you?

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 12-25-2011 - 11:52pm

He knows how you feel........but the friend still stays there!

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