Filled with hurt, rage, and confusion :[

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Registered: 06-16-2010
Filled with hurt, rage, and confusion :[
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Mon, 01-09-2012 - 12:10pm

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 5:23am
<< I don't need feedback about the fact that I had kids at a young age. It doesn't make me a bad person. >>

Very true.

He's not a real man if he's telling you to get out with his kid in tow. That's a coward, arrogant, selfish man. I know it's hard to think of now, but you have to get him out of your lives as much as possible.

And I'd look for clues about another woman being involved here. Sorry.

 

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Registered: 06-12-2011
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 1:10pm

I know what it is like to be in a relationship with someone who devalues you and takes their problems out on you and make you feel like you had a bomb dropped on you and sucks the life out of you

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Registered: 06-12-2011
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 1:39pm

You are absolutely right that just because you had kids young does not make you a bad person and I look at children as gifts from god to be cherished and nurtured. But when you make the choice to bring kids into the world there comes a world of responsibility and the major one is making sure they have a healthy environment in which to grow, to protect them, support them

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 01-17-2012 - 9:56am

Hi shmam,

I just wanted to check in with you to see how things are going?

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