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Financially Dependent Boyfriend
| Mon, 01-21-2008 - 10:02pm |
I have finally confirmed that my live-in boyfriend is a financial dependent.
| Mon, 01-21-2008 - 10:02pm |
I have finally confirmed that my live-in boyfriend is a financial dependent.
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>>Additionally, Boyfriend feels he’s a renter and shouldn’t have to pay any more than a roommate would pay.<<
And he'd be quite right to have this attitude.
I like your point of view and your advice, except for the fact that this is not the best time to be selling real property.
I've learned
Boot this bum to the curb.
He is not a boyfriend.
Welcome to the board postergal,
Sorry to hear about your brother.
Interesting point of view. In other words, I should pay all the bills and ignore that fact that the man I love is a freeloader?
For how long much longer should I do this?
Do you live rent free where you live?
Thank you for taking your time to express your thoughts.
I think that you should a) not have a freeloader living with you in the first place and b) avoid being a landlord to your boyfriends.
"Do you live rent free where you live?"
I'm not sure if this is supposed to be sarcastic or not, but in the case that it's not, no.
"Boyfriend feels he’s a renter and shouldn’t have to pay any more than a roommate would pay."
I am perplexed.
Thank you for responding. I appreciate your feedback. I didn’t mean for my question to you, "Do you live rent free where you live?" to be at all sarcastic. I asked this to make a point. I believe that most adults contribute, like you, an equitable amount toward living expenses.
If he won't pay what he agreed to, and you're not willing to kick him out and get someone in there who is willing to pay you a reasonable amount every month, what possible other solution is there other than for you to suck it up and support him?
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