Forgive & Forget or Move on?
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Forgive & Forget or Move on?
| Mon, 04-07-2008 - 12:15am |
Hello,
I am having a hard time with something I found out my boyfriend was doing. One day I was in his pictures file on his computer emailing myself pictures of the two of us so I could have them on my computer too when I found a hidden file that contained some hurtful things. After 8 months of dating, "I love you and want to marry you", meeting the family,

"I mean, we know what he was doing with those pictures...and its not like we dont make love all the freakin time bc we dooo!!!"
This is an assumption, OP, unless you are
Welcome to the board sweepypie05,
How can you be sure that these pictures weren't obtained before you got together? And how can you know if he has been looking at this pictures while you were together?
Only you know if this is something you can get over or not. Did you have trust issues before this happened?
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I'd be upset too if I were you.
Hi!
Welcome to the board sweepypie05,
His behavior, hunting down the pics of friends, etc. is inappropriate and is kind of creepy to me.
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Yes, it sounds like quite a shock to have found that file, especially of women he knew and especially after he made you delete all pictures of your ex. The worst part of course is the hiding and the fact that you could not trust him after that.
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