Found out something I wish I hadn't
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| Thu, 05-06-2004 - 1:14pm |
While he was gone, I did not have any sort of relationship with any other guy--not that opportunities didn't present themselves, but I just didn't have any interest in it. I decided that when he came back, as long as I knew that he wouldn't be endangering my health in any way, that if he wanted to continue a relationship with me, I didn't need to know what he had done in Australia. I felt like it was none of my business.
When he got back to the States, we both wanted to be back together. The whole time he was away, he was telling me he loved me, and not to worry about "us." We are together now, and he's been back for a week. It's like nothing has changed.
Unfortunately, I inadvertently found out that while he was in Australia, he had some sort of a relationship. I know that it was more than a one-night stand.
I don't know how to deal with this. Because he was "single" while he was away, he doesn't have any obligation to tell me about the relationship, and my plan was not to know about anything anyway. I figured that if he came home and wanted to be with me, then it didn't matter what he'd done while he was away as long as my health was not at risk.
My question is, how do I move on from this? How do I get over feeling betrayed and hurt? How do I deal with this without letting him know that "I Know?"
I'm confused and hurt and don't know what to do.
