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Friends Who became Lovers
| Tue, 07-13-2004 - 7:39pm |
Me and my guy friend has been friends for about five years now. I dated one of his friends and it didnt quite work out. I liked my guy friend for a long time now. Recently we just admitted it to one another. I dont have a boyfriend but he has a girlfriend. He has been with her for about two years. We already had sex. I want him to be my man. But then again I want out because I dont want to be the blame for their relationship not working out. But he still wants to have sex with me and he says their relationship is not like it was when they first started dating. Do I keep having relations with him or just keep it a friend level? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Of course not. Why would you want to be the 'other woman'?
Honestly this guy is a jerk for cheating on his girlfriend.
'he says their relationship is not like it was when they first started dating'
If he is unhappy then he should communicate with her or break up with her, not cheat on her. What if you two start dating and a few months from now the honeymoon phase is over. At that point things will be not like they were when you 'were first dating' (or first sleeping together). How does he deal with it? Does he cheat on you? Do you assume he is cheating on you when things aren't perfect?
He isn't boyfriend material.
This is a VERY BAD IDEA. Please get out now.
Ivy
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