Get back together with ex?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2003
Get back together with ex?
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 6:50pm

My ex and I broke up 3 years ago next month.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 7:07pm

Yes people do grow up, it sounds like you really want to get back together with him. Go for it. Is there a chance of you getting hurt again? Yes, sure. But probably not as badly as last time.

You should be willing to demand an exclusive and committed relationship from him, and more importantly, willing to walk away if you don't get it. Demand the change he's promised you. Good luck.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2003
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 7:19pm
Thanks Eggbert for the reply.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 4:21am

People do change.

If you believe everything happens for a reason then , this will work out.Be positive.If you meet him with a mind set of " - I may see him and have no feelings!" you really may not feel. Maybe you did move on but there was something that didnt let you move on.KWIM? In a nutshell, i would say, neither of you moved on .You both are still there.

There are chances of getting hurt again but it depends on how you take it.You might be prepared for it better than before but some people get so hurt that they struggle hard to get up again and do the real move on!

if you believe it will work , it will and vice-versa.

Good luck!