Getting my ex back

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Registered: 05-25-2008
Getting my ex back
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Sun, 05-25-2008 - 1:45am
I dated a man for almost 3 years. Then everything started to go down hill fast so I kicked him out. Now I want him back so bad it hurts. We spend a lot of time together and even go out for dinner and movies together. I am at his house almost everyday and even spend the night with us having great sex. But every time I have asked him about us getting back together he says he doesn't have the feelings and doesn't think he can again. We can spend the whole day together then out of the blue he will get up and say he is going to the bar to play pool and will be back in a little while. So there I am waiting at his house for him to come home. What do I do to bring those feelings back? I honestly do love him very much.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 5:07am

About the only thing you can do is stop giving him sex and company

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 3:17am

"Then everything started to go down hill fast so I kicked him out."


"I honestly do love him very much."


Kind of wondering about this but it probably wouldn't matter anyway.


Why should he get back "together" with you?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:50am

He enjoys the no-strings-attached sex with you, probably enjoys your company enough to go on dates with you, but has absolutely no desire to be in a relationship with you again.

Pick yourself up and spare yourself some dignity. Do the rest of the women in this world a favor, don't let yourself be used by a man. He has you on a leash whether you realize it or not.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 2:29pm

Welcome to the board mscricket22008,


It is so unfortunate that women/females continue to believe that the best way to get and/or keep a guy is to give them their body (sex) and be at their beck and call.