gf wanting space - help out a guy please
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|Fri, 06-06-2003 - 5:31am|
I'm trying to be considerate, since this is also the time that her mother past away last year. Not to mentioned she also broke up an engagement with a previous bf of 7 years. I'm sure her heart is scarred from that relationship.
I love her dearly and does not want to lose her. My question is, is this a way for her to nicely breakup with me. Or is this just something women in their late 20s goes through because they lost their mother, and had a previous long broken relationship and I'm just being paranoid.
So anyway, today I told her that I love her and that I do not want to lose her. It was the first time in our relationship that I told her I love her. Instantly, I could see tears in her eyes, but she still needed space.
Is this a lost cost? Or should I just give her some space and hope that she comes back. My personal opinion is that she is afraid of getting hurt again and so she does not know what to do. Hence the needing of space to reflect on things...etc..
Any opinions will be appreciated.