girlfriend does not get turned on

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Registered: 10-06-2008
girlfriend does not get turned on
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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 1:58pm








HELLO TO ALL, i HAVE MET THE GIRL OF MY DREAMS, we are very much both in love with each other,we are both divorced with children and both wanting to start a new life together.To make a long question short.Everything we do together we enjoy, we both love each others company,we both make each other smile and we both cant get enough of each other.One thing though,sex is good, but more times its bad,or a problem for us.She does not get aroused before or during sex by anything i do.she says she doesn't know why and is very frustrated.Is it possible for two people to connect so well in all areas of life,and be so happy with each other,but not have the sparks when the lights go out, or stay on.We would both like to hear your answers to this question.Thank you in advance !













































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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 2:22pm

Welcome to the board shemakesmehappy,


Your post is layed out oddly and so most of it is cut off and I can't read all of it.....


Is she on birth control pills or anti-depressents or any other meds?

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Registered: 10-06-2008
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 4:06pm
Thanks Winflame,no meds or birth control,tubes are tide.We are together alot,she has moved in with me with her children as well as mine.When we first met,she fell in love with me because of how I treated her & how i and us made each other feel.I feel now that the sexual desire for her is a physical thing and maybe I'm just not her type.She has never been with anyone like me, looks or personality wise.I am not bad looking,but just not her manly type I guess.I was just wondering if this has finally come to matter when we go to have sex.Again,her love for me is not a question,but there seems to be chemistry missing. Thanks again