Girls from the past..
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Girls from the past..
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 6:51am |
My boyfriend of one year has been getting phone calls from this B*TCH in the philipines. He says shes his "friend", and hes never had sex with her er whatever. But I do know that she sent him nude photos of herself, and put on a show over the webcam for him before he and I got together. He went over there last year I guess and met her, among others, and did god knows what with them. My question is; he says there "friends" and shes half a world away, and hes never done anything with her, so I shouldnt be "worried". But I still dont think its right that she calls him 5 times in 20 mins. He didnt answer, but he should tell her hes in a relationship now. Because, Im sorry this is going to sound bad, but her and all the other whores (literally) over there, only want some american man to marry them and bring em back to the US. Am I wrong for wanting him to tell her to back the freak off now, because hes with me?

Your BF thinks that just because him and her are "half a world away", that the reality of this isnt there. Unfortunatley, he is very wrong. What he did in the past, is just that- the past. In my eyes, it doesnt concern you and should have no bearing on what you feel. That doesnt always happen either. First thing is to let him know that his behavior is disrespectful and wont be tolerated. That it hurts you and if he wants to continue, he can do so with out you in his life. If he is mature, he will take it uopn himself to call her or fill her in on you the next time she tries to contact him.
Whether she gets the clue the first time or not...I dont know.
Good luck,
it is quite possible that he is dating her as well. He probably tells her that you are just a friend, and that he really loves her, and he still gets webcam performances and nude pics over the net and you don't know about it.
IF she is calling 5 times in 20 minutes, and he didn't answer or didn't try to talk to her, maybe she is calling b/c she knows her man is with another girl and is freaking out.
Him not answering makes him look guilty. If she was just a friend, he would have picked up the phone, said that he was busy with his girlfriend and told her that he would call her back later.
I would have him tell her on the phone (with you there next 2 him) that he is dating you. If he won't do it then he has something to hide and he is playing you both.
If he does tell her that you are this girl - then most people would say that is okay for him to have female friends even with his girl. I don't agree with that logic. I think people shouldnt stay friends with their exes.
as fas as him having not had sex with her, I don't believe that all. If she is willing to webcam stuff over the internet and send nude pics, then I am sure she did something with him when he went to visit. Like you said, if she is trying to get a man to bring her over to the US, don't you think she would be giving him sex or whatever else he wanted, when he went to visit her?
Carrie