gossip

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Registered: 11-23-2007
gossip
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Sun, 03-30-2008 - 5:22pm
so my best guy friend and i are involved but not actually dating...we shared our first kiss recently and this being my first kiss with this guy i told 2 of my friends. One of the friends I know wouldnt say anything to anyone but the other im not so sure about. Basically the info got out and everyone was talking about it and now my guy friend knows. He's upset with me because of the rumors he's heard between us and that apparently other people know every discussion we've ever had. And he doesnt think he can trust me anymore and that he doesnt want to get involved because he cant trust me. The thing is like i've never told anyone about the conversations weve had and i dont know how it got out. I almost just wish i knew how they got out so i could fess up but i dont know how to deal with this. I still really like him and want him to trust me! I wont ever tell anyone anything about us but i want to see where that relationship goes. I just want to pick up where we left off. I dont know how to explain this to him. Do I just give him time? What do I say? I just really miss him!
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: ifudge22
Sun, 03-30-2008 - 8:57pm

Welcome to the board ifudge22,


So how does he know the rumors started with you about the conversations, if you say you haven't shared those with anyone?

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Registered: 11-23-2007
In reply to: ifudge22
Sun, 03-30-2008 - 9:08pm
well he basically assumed that i told but i dont know why he would call me out if he told especially because before this argument we were going really well...
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: ifudge22
Sun, 03-30-2008 - 9:16pm
Could be he's looking for an excuse, no matter how good things were going.