Got pics in e-mail from friend's hubby
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| Sat, 06-05-2004 - 8:39pm |
Now for my dilemma. My friend's husband, whom I considered to be my friend as well, e-mailed me pictures of his penis.
I was on the phone with him at the time. He called me to ask me to send him some links to help him build a website. I told him I would send them as we spoke, so I got on the computer. He told me he sent me an e-mail from his new address and to send the links to that address. I clicked on the e-mail and he asked me if I looked at the pictures. I hadn't noticed the attachment until that point. So, I clicked on the attachment and opened it up. I was horrified.
I don't remember much of the conversation after that. I remember saying "that's horrible!" and him laughing. I just wanted to end the conversation.
I don't know if he meant it as a joke or what, but he seriously crossed a line. I feel violated in a way.
I told my husband about it. He's upset too...this guy is suppose to be his friend, too.
Now, I don't know what to do. Should I tell my friend (this guy's wife) that her husband sent these pictures to me? Obviously, the friendship between the four of us has been compromised. I just don't know if I should tell her what her husband did. I know it will hurt her, but shouldn't she know? I don't know what to do.
Any suggestions?
Thanks!

that is sooo sick. and stupid too - what a low life! I am glad that you and your husband are united on this.
as to what to do? I am not sure what to tell you. if you tell her - assuming she has not idea what a jerk her husband is - that will surely end the relationship between you, and HE will probably end up blaming YOU for coming on to him, or some such nonsense.
At this point - I would probably have your husband (or you and your husband together)