Great at friendship terrible at intimacy
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Great at friendship terrible at intimacy
| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 12:01pm |
This is the guy I have been dating now for over a year --
a really nice guy, good father, dedicated worker, and great, reliable trustworthy friend, but a not so great intimate parter
he isn't a *bad* guy-- he is actually a nice guy and he enjoys my company... but he recoils at closeness, intimacy, and love in the real sense. He can say "I love you" but can't elaborate. He can have sex, but not be passionate or emotional about it. He stops short of what Im are looking for, but because he is so nice, I keep wanting to believe he will reach a certain level of intimacy, but it doesn't seem like he can
WHAT IS THIS???
Has anyone out there had this?
What did you do about it?

You can try 'Relationship Rescue' by Dr Phil as he explains some of this.
Hopefully, someone will have some good advice for you.
Carrie
Hopefully this helps... I have enough probs with my b/f still, but I got the faith, girl! lol... good luck...
-Rinny
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