GUY FRIEND

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Registered: 05-25-2008
GUY FRIEND
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Sun, 05-25-2008 - 11:44pm
I HAD A BEST FRIEND AND I WAS WRONG OF WHAT I DID TO HER WHICH WAS GOTTEN INVOLVED WITH A GU Y SHE LIKED. ANYWAY, HE AND I ARE STILL SEEING AND TALKING TO EACH OTHER BUT AT THE SAME TIME, I KNOW HE STILL TALKING TO MY EX BEST FRIEND AND SEEING HER IF HE WANTS TO. HE DOESN'T TRUST ME AT ALL BECAUSE OF MY LACK OF CHEATING, LYING, AND SEX BUT I AM STILL TRYING TO CHANGE THE HABIT SO I CAN BE WITH HIM. HOWEVER, THE QUESTION I AM HAVING EVERYDAY IS "IS THERE GOING TO BE A FUTURE FOR BOTH OF US OR NOT SO I CAN MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE?" THE BIG PROBLEM BETWEEN US ARE LONG DISTANCE; HE LIVES IN MS AND I LIVE IN GA THAT HE CAN'T TRUST ME FOR HIMSELF AND THE WORST THING, HE THINKS I WANT HIS FRIENDS AND DO SOMETHING TO THEM BUT I WANT HIM AND HAD BEEN SHOWING HIM THAT I WANT HIM ONLY, NOT FOR HIS FRIENDS; SEX; IF I HAVEN'T HAD SEX IN A FEW WEEKS AND SUDDENLY I WENT TO SEE HIM FOR A WEEKEND; AFTER DONE IT, WE BOTH ARGUED OVER THAT HE ACCUSED ME OF HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE BEFORE I WENT TO SEE HIM. I WAS SO MAD AND TRIED TO TELL HIM NO, I WASN'T OR WHATEVER...IT HURTS AND I DESERVE A GUY WHO IS SO INTO ME, GIVING ME A CHANCE TO BE A PERSON I WANT FOR MYSELF TO BE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE IN A RELATIONSHIP. I HAD A BAD LUCK WITH GUYS IN MY PAST AND NEED SOME HELP ASAP. WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THE GUY FRIEND I HAVE AND I ALWAYS SHOWING HIM LOVE WHEN HE SAID HE WASN'T INTERESTED IN ME BUT WE ALWAYS ENDING UP GO OUT, CHILLING', GO TO HIS MOM HOUSE, GO TO THE MOVIES, HE PAYS MY WAY OUT AND I PAY HIS WAY OUT LIKE A GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND THING, SLEEP TOGETHER, EAT BREAKFAST TOGETHER STUFF LIKE THAT....
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:27am
Can you please not type in all caps? Your post was hard enough to read already. I'm not sure what to say, why do you stay with someone who doesn't trust you.
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Registered: 05-25-2008
In reply to: crzypooh39
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 10:25am
I am still trying to earn his trust in me and it seemed it's a waste of my time when he still thinking that I am sleeping around with other guys. Like he said, we are just friends and I didn't see the problem unless we're in a relationship which we are not even though we hang out, chilling, do girlfriend/boyfriend thing. He still talking to my ex best friend and they used to hang out before we hang out so it was complicated. I know I am crazy or doesn't have enough common sense to know what I need to do but what you think?
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 12:21pm
I think he's judging you REALLY harshly for someone he's not even dating. I'm not sure how you betrayed him in any way to make him act like this toward you...
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 2:48pm

Welcome to the board crzypooh39,


I agree with eggbertshootsfire, he is judging you harshly especially if the two of you aren't dating.