Guy on Vacation, no calls

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Registered: 03-22-2004
Guy on Vacation, no calls
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:03pm
My live-in boyfriend left to go on vacation across the country last week. I was supposed to go with him but due to my financial situation, and starting a new job, I obviously couldn't.

He's been gone for 5 days, with another 4 to go, and I'm really missing him. He promised before he left that he would call me every night, but I haven't heard a word from him in almost 3 days aside from a text message yesterday stating he would call me last night.

Work has been going crappy, and I just got some horrible news from my mom about her health, so now I need to talk to him more than ever, and he didn't call!

I'm even more upset, because I got a few offers to go out last night but really wanted to talk to him so I waited for his call.

I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt for the first few days, despite the fact that he told me he would call every night, but now I feel forced to jump to conclusions...

Unless he has a really good excuse, right now, I feel like I'm just being taken for granted.

I can be almost certain it's not an emergency since his parents (who are also there) would have called by now to fill me in.

What would you think?
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Registered: 07-20-2004
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 4:32pm
Something definately seems to be up. If you two are living together i'm assuming that the relationship is serious and that kind of behavior should be unacceptable. A serious talk should be in order when he returns. Are you able to contact him or his parents?