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had to cut him off
| Sun, 06-06-2004 - 11:57pm |
i had to cut my boyfirend off from sex because i kept having panic attackes afterwards...im worryed that this might become a be problem for him and he'll break up with me. he told me it was my choice, and he seemed some what ok. but im worred...can anyone tell me how to help him with this while im trying to feguire out what is going on with me?

Have you ever been a victim of sexual assault? Have you been to therapy for your attacks?
Stopping sex is like turning up the volumne on the car radio so that you don't hear the weird noises that the car is making. You don't hear the noises anymore but the car needs to be fixed.
If he loves you and respects you he will stand by you and help you through this. Why would he break up with you over this? And if he says he won't, why won't you trust him?
If not, use these until you figure out a way to chill.
And, are you over 18? If so explain to your parents (or your mom if that is better) the precautions you are using for STD's and prego's. It might make her feel better.
Jessa
I think you may suspect that he will leave you based on his personality and maybe some facts. What are they?
'to him sex to him is the closet that he feels to me. a way of us showing how we feel the best...'
I knew guys that would say this to girls to get them to sleep with them. Do you think he is sincere or pressuring you?