Hanging out with someone else
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Hanging out with someone else
| Tue, 05-13-2008 - 9:58pm |
I am so confused.I did not see this coming. My bf and I have been dating for almost 3 yrs. I just found out that he was creeping out of the house to go cuddle and watch movies with a friend of his that had a crush on him. He's been telling her that he's only with me because of his son and telling her that I am a bitch. When I found this out and confronted him, he says that he said those things out of frustration. He said his actions have nothing to do with me and that he has a problem with

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Welcome to the board stilllovinhim,
::he says that he said those things out of frustration.
It may have been out of frustration, but it was also to vent, to build a closeness with her, to justify is decision to sneek out of the house and be with her.
A man tells a woman that she is too good for him for no reason other than because it is the truth. This is one of the most important things a guy can say to you; it means that if you stay with him you will be WELL WARNED that he does not think he can OR WILL live up to the standards that you set for yourself and others. He's telling you that you should break up with him, and if you don't, this is what you can EXPECT of him in the future.
I'm so sorry, three years is a long time to be with someone for this to happen. But you really are too good for him.
I like you, you don't mess around.
what about that other chick he is sneaking out to see.
nah.
"Angry and with in your rights......... yes."
If the OP owns/leases the home by herself, then, yes, she is within her rights to get him to leave, and if he won't she can have him arrested for trespassing.
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