has something changed?

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Registered: 03-18-2007
has something changed?
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Sun, 03-18-2007 - 6:34pm
I havent been with my boyfriend long but it feels to me like something has changed. At first he would always come around me wanting to kiss me and talk to me and all the basic stuff like that but a couple weeks ago he told me he loved me for the first time and i have felt different with him since then. I dont doubt his sincerity in it but something seems different to me. We live about an hour from each other so we dont see each other nearly like wed like to but when i do get to see him i just feel almost like we have hit a roadblock of sorts for where we are in our relationship.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 5:46pm

Hi happygirl and welcome to the board.


Can you describe what you feel is the road block?

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Registered: 03-18-2007
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 10:00pm
Well alot of our correspondence takes place online due to the distance and lately ive gotten the feeling he is saying things because he feels like thats what hes supposed to be saying. I don't know if this is true because i don't feel this way when im physically together with him or on the phone but its still a little troubling to me. And when we are having a conversation he usually cant think of anything to talk about so it leads me to wonder if he wants to be talking to me but again this is only when we are online in person and on the phone this isnt a big problem. Please any input or advice on this is greatly appreciated.