Have I completely screwed up?
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Have I completely screwed up?
| Fri, 09-17-2004 - 12:07pm |
Short version:
Met this guy 2 weeks ago, & we've spent almost every day together... Very deep mutual connection between us... Some say you know when you meet "The One" & if that is true this is definately the case... he even told me he loved me (soon I know) & sent me 2 dozen roses on my bday yesterday!!! So yeah yesterday was my bday so I went out with friends & he went out with his friends... well I ended up getting kinda drunk & started calling him because I wanted to see him... well I am the type that drunk dials... & bad! So I called him repeatedly... bad- I know! Well he eventually answered & said something then hung up. so I went home... he showed up at my apt. 2 hours later with a cake & card & I asked him to leave! He did but accidently left his phone at my place. Today I called him at work & told him I found his phone then hung up...
We are very much alike- stubborn! So he won't call me first- if he even calls at all! I am wondering if anyone thinks I have completely screwed up the chance of this relationship developing? We talked the other day about straightening our lives together- like not drinkning alcohol as much (we are just out of college). So I know we both had the same intentions of a long term relationship developing!
Met this guy 2 weeks ago, & we've spent almost every day together... Very deep mutual connection between us... Some say you know when you meet "The One" & if that is true this is definately the case... he even told me he loved me (soon I know) & sent me 2 dozen roses on my bday yesterday!!! So yeah yesterday was my bday so I went out with friends & he went out with his friends... well I ended up getting kinda drunk & started calling him because I wanted to see him... well I am the type that drunk dials... & bad! So I called him repeatedly... bad- I know! Well he eventually answered & said something then hung up. so I went home... he showed up at my apt. 2 hours later with a cake & card & I asked him to leave! He did but accidently left his phone at my place. Today I called him at work & told him I found his phone then hung up...
We are very much alike- stubborn! So he won't call me first- if he even calls at all! I am wondering if anyone thinks I have completely screwed up the chance of this relationship developing? We talked the other day about straightening our lives together- like not drinkning alcohol as much (we are just out of college). So I know we both had the same intentions of a long term relationship developing!
Question: Should I call & apologize for my drunk actions? Or wait for him to call me? & what should I do to make this situation better?
Thank you

I bet if you call him and apologize and explain that you were acting totally out of character and tell him that you still really want to clean up your act (alcohol or what not) and just have a calm talk...he'll definately come around. It's a new relationship too, so you guys are just getting to know eachother and your actions and reactions. In my opinion, if you react by calling and apologizing he'll easily see what a sincere and sweet person you are...which will make a good impression anyway. I'm also stubborn...VERY but even I would call because I'd know I was in the wrong when he was just trying to do the nicest thing.
Let us know how it goes.