have you been through this 2?

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Registered: 09-08-2004
have you been through this 2?
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 4:32pm
Well my boyfriend is a great guy. And recently weve been going through some problems. Not too long ago I saw another girls picture in his camera phone and he gave me this excuse that he was at a party with his boys and this girl came up to talk to them and was like that she liked to take pictures. So he took out his camera phone and took the picture of her. But i wan to know why. He said that he wanted to see how his camera looked at night. So then why did he save it? And Howcame he couldnt take a picture of something else? It was a new phone but why is he taking pictures of other girls instead of me?

Another issue is that he has alot of girl numbers in his phone and when I ask who the person is he says that he doesnt remember. But in the beginning he told me that he doesnt have a lot of girl friends. what is that?

And then one day an girl picked up his phone and when she heared my voice sha hung up right away. And then when I called the number back he didnt pick it up. But when I called his house phone his brother picked up and told me that he was at his neighbors house talking to her. Which he never does b/c he doesnt like them that much. So I called the house like 1 hour later and his brother picked up again and when he did he said that he was still down there so i made him go and get him. Whe my boyfriend came to the phone he told me that he was in the house all day and that his cell phone wasnt next to him. His cellphone was in his brothers room and that his brothers friend picked up the phone thinking it was hers. And then he said that he was going to come to my house because he didnt like that I was upset. He lives 1 block away from me but it took him about 30minuets to get to my house he said he had to handle somethings on the way here.

None of these things adds up. He thinks that I was cheating on him because I was in school and my friends and I were always hanging out. I was graduating and I was having fun with them before we all left eachother. And I wasnt cheating.

What should i do HELP ME PLZ

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 5:56pm
I haven't been though this specifically, but I will say this, if you have this much worry about what he's doing or not doing, I say 1) trust your gut feeling and 2) and maybe it's time to move on from the relationship.


Carrie