Have you ever had

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Registered: 04-14-2004
Have you ever had
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Thu, 04-29-2004 - 10:40am
I'm just curious for some reason. I see all of these posts and I have to wonder. How many of you have had someone in your life that was magical and true, or have you settled in some relationships?

I see many break ups on this board, but I also see the reasons behind them (Cheating, abuse, drugs, etc.) It seems like that you're being hurt by someone who has done some pretty serious wrongs to you, or has issues they don't care to work out.

How many have ever had someone truly love them? I mean, have you ever had a guy look you in the eyes and tear up because his heart is overwhelmed by you?

Have you ever had a guy make you home made soup and bring you medicine to your house when most people wouldn't want to come into your room?

Maybe this person thought enough about you to leave you cards for when you came home , or had your dinner fixed and a bath drawn?

I could go on, but I'm just curious, if you've ever had these things in your love, without the serious flaws did you throw it away? Or did he turn bad?

I'm not sure what the true point of this post is. I just know that it seems alot of people on here have been hurt and I wonder if they have truly even had someone show them tenderness and unconditional love.

I'd like to hear from everyone and their opinion on this one.



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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-29-2004 - 10:50am
This message board is for people who are having difficulties and want to receive help with them. There is no reason to make anyone who posts on this board feel badly about themselves or envious of someone else's relationship. It takes courage to post on this board and work things out. When trouble comes in a relationship, this is a time for learning and growth. Even those who have had a beautiful relationship need help at some time or other.