having problems in bed

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Registered: 07-15-2007
having problems in bed
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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 9:11pm

let me begin with this:
my wife and i have been together for 5 years and we have been married for 4 years...
before i got injured on the job back in 2003 we were having sex rwice a day 7 days a week..it was wonderful...but then i got injured and the sex pretty much stopped at the time i could not even stand the pain enough to make love to my wife...but now that it has been almost 4 years since i have been injured and we are starting to be able to do some things but not alot as i still having back problems...but i have noticed that i am having problems performing in the bed room before i was able to go for a real long time...now i can't even keep an erection long enough to please her like i used to be able to...i sometimes have to give her oral sex which she loves alot and it does satisfy her but that is not good enough for me.....it is because of all the medicine i am taing that is causing this problem or do i need to go on viagra.....and alot of times i have to masterbate inoreder to get some relief for my self....my wife things that she don't turn me on anymore but trust me she does....so tell me am i ready to try viagra or what can i do to go back to where i was before i got hurt...

ypu can email me at coloradonative2@msn.com if you would like with ideas you might have................................thank you..................................

please help and give any idea's that you can
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 9:15pm
Don, have you spoken frankly to your doctor about this? We are not physicians, and have no way to diagnose you on a message board, but your problem is serious. Please don't rely on people who don't know you for a solution--make an appointment to see the one person who may be able to help you.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 07-17-2007 - 12:56pm
I agree that you