Is he afraid to commit
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Is he afraid to commit
| Sun, 06-13-2004 - 5:18pm |
My boyfriend shows signs of being afraid to commit ... ie: says we will do things together and it never happens ... still goes into the chat room that caused us big trouble in the past .... and always seems to have excuses as to why he can't stay a full night .... we have had trust issues in the past ... and have been off and on for a year now ... more so on the past 5 or 6 months ... he calls every day .... says that he loves me .... adores my children .... but I can't seem to reach through to him ... I know that he has been cheated on twice .... so I try to be understanding ... but I feel that I deserve more than he's giving .... any suggestions? ... Do you think that he is afraid? .... I'm at a loss .... I'm afraid that if I push the issue I will lose him ... and I don't want this ... but I also feel that he needs to not make promises that he doesn't intend to keep ....

When you have children, you don't have time for game playing because they don't have the reasoning or coping skills that adults do when it comes to relationships.
You need no man at all or a man that treats you right that you introduce your children to long after you have developed love and trust. A man who lies and visits chat rooms, doesn't fall into that category. Do you think you deserve this?
Pam
Sheri