He can't let go of the past

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Registered: 03-26-2003
He can't let go of the past
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Sun, 02-03-2008 - 9:08pm

My current boyfriend met me while I was still in another relationship.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-05-2008 - 4:02pm

Thanks for the responses everyone. Well what my therapist had to say is this: that jealousy is relatively common, but, it should be a very minor thing incident-wise. He also believes that reassurance is appropriate in this situation. However, he points out that obviously more is at work here, including our history.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-05-2008 - 4:18pm

Hi True Blue,


Well, being an idealist myself, I can still remember when I used to think just that. But thinking about it now, I have to ask myself, is it possible to find

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Tue, 02-05-2008 - 5:26pm

'counseling is not at all about molding anyone at all; it is about learning to communicate with your partner. '


Exactly.

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