he cheated on his girl w/ me
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he cheated on his girl w/ me
| Tue, 08-10-2004 - 8:35pm |
my best friend who is a guy and has lived me for almost a year has had a girlfriend for 6 month's. recently, we had intercourse out of the blue/unexpected. he cheated on his girl! and he told me he is in love. i am taking it well. she stays the night at our house often. he is only 21 and i dont think he realizes what real love is. when i talk about liking guys myself, he does not support me and changes the subject. What is going on?

Why are you analyzing what he says or doesn't say? Do you like him as more than a friend? Do you want this to develop into something more because if you do you are heading for disaster. This mans cheats on his girlfriend which doesn't make him boyfriend material. Do you think he wouldn't do the same to you?
'i dont think he realizes what real love is.'
Why do you think this and why do you care?
You are in a weird situation cohabitating with him, being his best friend, wantiong more and liking a man who doesn't have a whole lot of respect for women. Can you live like this?
This one has heartache written all over it until he's a bit more mature and knows what he really wants. Good luck to you.
PS He cheated on her, what does that say about his integrity? You also allowed it to happen, knowing he had a girlfriend, what does that say about your integrity? Also, you've just sent the universal message out that it's ok to cheat....you will reap what you sow.
Edited 8/11/2004 2:49 pm ET ET by itwinflame
Carrie