Is he cheating?

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Registered: 02-09-2004
Is he cheating?
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Fri, 06-24-2011 - 1:43pm

I've been living with my boyfriend for the past 6 months. We have a great relationship and have never had any real problems. We get along great and spend a great deal of our time together. I hang out with him and his friends weekly so we have all grown very close. Last night as I was talking to one of his good friends, we started talking about relationships and cheating. I asked him if my bf had ever cheated on me. The friend didn't want to answer at first but then admitted that he had witnessed my bf kissing another girl at a bar and that they may have left together. He said he tried to stop it and he

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 3:28pm

I can't imagine why you would have asked your BF's friend whether he cheated--that really put him in a bad position.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 7:28pm

adpiluv, I'm confused.

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 8:52pm

Usually men stick together as brothers in matters like this and don't rat each others little indiscretions out. I'd wonder why he fessed up to that in the first place. Is there any chance the

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 06-25-2011 - 12:35am

I'm with the others........WHY would you even ask that question, especially ask HIS friend....and he's not much of a friend, either......if he rats him out!