is he cheating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2008
is he cheating?
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Mon, 03-31-2008 - 1:08pm
hi everyone!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2003
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 1:11pm
Something about Friday nights isn't right. I would be suspicious, too. It's fine to have a night out with friends without your partner, but he's sneaking around about something.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2008
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 1:15pm

Could it be that he thinks you're accusing him of something and he's afraid that you always think he's doing something?


I say that because my husband had a wife and girlfriend that was that way.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 2:17pm

Welcome to the board laincondicional,


To me I don't see someone that is cheating, I just see someone that is tired of being asked if they are cheating. I could be wrong though. Do you have any other reason to think he might be cheating on you?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2008
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 3:10pm
Well
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 6:18pm

Welcome to the board laincondicional,


Well, my advice might sound odd, but I'd stop contacting him on Friday nights and stop asking him about it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 7:49pm

Have you ever seen a therapist about your jealousy problems? It will follow you with every relationship.


He may very well be cheating and you need to find out but short of following him on a Friday evening

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2008
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:12am
Thank you very for your advice.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 2:19pm

It doesnt look good for him to be mysteriously out of commission on Friday nights.


"So I figure the same way he was messing with her and seeing me he could be doing the same thing to me.