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is he cheating?
| Sat, 12-22-2007 - 7:37pm |
My dh and I have been together for almost 7 years, I was a sahm for a good part of it and just started working full time evenings from 2-10 that way I am home during the day and he is home at night so we don't need a babysitter. But because of our schedules I barley see him, and on my days off for some reason he "works late" and don't come home until 7-8pm when I call him on his cell phone he won't even say "I love you" when we hang up. I have never had him (unless we are fighting) not say that when we hang up, but on my days off he stays "at work" late and when I call him he's real brief, says he's busy and then says bye, even if I say I love you first. Do you think he could be cheating? I am 5 months pregnant and we haven't had sex in 3 months, totally not my fault, I want it and he don't says it would be weird, but with my daughter we still had sex. And if I say anything to him, of course I'm being a b****. I just don't know what to do anymore.

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Yes. He probably is. I hate to say it but something is up, I'm sure his behavior wasn't always like this.
Is there any way you could get him into counseling? I might even suggest letting it go for now because stress is very, very bad for a pregnancy.
Hi there alone_wife,
You need to stop wondering and ask him.
Welcome to the board alone_wife,
Consider being as direct as oldnimrod suggested:
You need to stop wondering and ask him.
First you are here asking if we think your husband is cheating and then you write you are considering leaving him.
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