is he cheating?

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Registered: 09-09-2005
is he cheating?
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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 7:37pm
My dh and I have been together for almost 7 years, I was a sahm for a good part of it and just started working full time evenings from 2-10 that way I am home during the day and he is home at night so we don't need a babysitter. But because of our schedules I barley see him, and on my days off for some reason he "works late" and don't come home until 7-8pm when I call him on his cell phone he won't even say "I love you" when we hang up. I have never had him (unless we are fighting) not say that when we hang up, but on my days off he stays "at work" late and when I call him he's real brief, says he's busy and then says bye, even if I say I love you first. Do you think he could be cheating? I am 5 months pregnant and we haven't had sex in 3 months, totally not my fault, I want it and he don't says it would be weird, but with my daughter we still had sex. And if I say anything to him, of course I'm being a b****. I just don't know what to do anymore.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 1:46pm


Well, certainly something sounds off here. There's no reason to stop sex during pregnancy. I don't know if he's cheating, although I could see why you would wonder. He may also be having emotional reactions that he himself is unaware of, regarding having a larger family and more responsibility. I would certainly discuss this with him clearly and let him know how upset you are. It would most likely also be helpful if the two of you (or you yourself) saw a counsellor for awhile to actually work through what's really going on here and the best way of handling it.


All good wishes,

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Registered: 09-09-2005
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 2:30pm

Thank you all for your replys, I am trying to work on this with him, I will try and let you all know how it turns out. Thanks again.

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