He does NOT TRY

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Registered: 12-02-2007
He does NOT TRY
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Mon, 12-10-2007 - 3:51pm

OKay, me an my boyfriend have been together for a year almost. I've known him for a lot longer.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 4:04pm

Dazedanconfused, all this is probably why your mother is trying to gain custody of your child.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 4:23pm
I'm sorry, but you are putting the needs and wants of this "man" ahead of your own child. That is just wrong. He is a grown man. You shouldn't be supporting him and neglecting yourself and your child. Please get your priorities in line.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 4:24pm

Why do you want to be with him? What exactly do you love about him? He's almost 20 years older than you. He has no job, no prospects, a jiail record (for what?), he's depressed, he won't try, he's lazy, he uses you, and he

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 4:31pm

You're only nineteen. Life is too short to spend it with a deadbeat. A 34 year old who can't even take care of himself is with a nineteen year old girl because most nineteen year old girls don't EXPECT anything of a man.

You must not have a very good relationship with your mother if you really care about this guy more. Don't you deserve better than him? He may be nice to you and treat you well, but at 34, his life isn't going to get better for you.

You also have to think of what someone could possibly have in common with a girl almost half his age. If you are more mature than him, don't you think that says something really important about him?

If you don't demand a better guy than this for yourself then I'm sorry to say you don't have much in store. Please look out for yourself and choose people to be around you because they DESERVE you, not because you have feelings for them.