He doesn't know anymore..
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| Fri, 11-16-2007 - 11:46pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We've been going through quite a few ups and downs and the main one is the fact that he cannot trust me. In the beginning I kept some things from him that he found out on his own and then I unintentionally but blankly hit another guy, I know you wonder how it's unintentional but this kid was a flirty friend that i was nowhere near interested in. i simply failed to think before commenting a picture of his since i hadn't talked to him in so long and didnt think how dumb a response it was when i'm in a committed relationship. i've learned from my mistakes.. i've grown from them.
this guy means absolutely everything to me. everything is at peace when we're together but when apart his mind wonders into the trust issue cause i'm quite a likable person and he's, so i'd think, insecure.
he's talking about me not being right for him, at least right now. it's too much and he can't do this anymore cause of the issues with me and being untrustworthy. i'm trying, or so i think, to gain his trust, know that he's not a trusting person to begin with, but nothing i do seems to help so i'm lost at what to do anymore. he and i are both wanting things to work out but i dont want to have to break up in order for things to be resolved. i told him that i want us to remain together but i'll give him all the time he needs to figure things out cause once again he admits to wanting things for us to work out.
i'm only 19 and he's about to be 21. we're both in school and financially unstable so moving in together isn't an option. is there anything that can be done for him to be okay when we're apart? is there any way for him, or us, to work through this trust issue? he and i compliment each other very well and we both feel that we're meant to be together, but this obstacle.. it's harder for him to overcome than it is me because i'm more of the forgiving and trusting type while he's the complete opposite. can something be done?

Hi dbc806,
Sounds like he likes the relationship exactly as it is.