He filed for marriage before?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
He filed for marriage before?
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 3:10pm

Ok...to make a long story short, my fiance and I have been together for 4 years.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2003
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 3:23pm

Kaycee, RUN!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 3:27pm

He can't control his anger, he lies, there is an ex to deal with and he has a child whom he should be focusing on. This doesn't sound like the ideal set up for a healthy marriage.


Think long and hard about this. Is anything going to change? Might it even get worse?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 3:28pm

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 3:30pm

Change?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 4:19pm

Welcome to the board kayceekay08,


There are a lot of red flags on this part. I think this should tell you all that you need to know. How can you really think about marrying him when at this point I don't think you can even trust him. Plus he has anger issues and other issues.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 4:35pm

"I'm being misled, and lied to. What other suprises will await me? Why not be honest? What if I had found this out AFTER we had been married?

Mix this with some of the other problems, and Im ready to call off EVERYTHING off...Help!"

YOU HAVE THE ANSWER RIGHT HERE!!

Yes it's hard to let go when you have a lot invested. But it's never impossible. He thinks so little of your intelligence - When a movie or TV show wants to take an easy way out of a difficult plot line, they give one of their characters amnesia. This guy is so dumb and lame.

You're not a fool and you do not deserve to be played like one.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 4:39pm
I dont understand...why was he wearing a wedding ring if he was never married?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 5:20pm

Welcome to the board kayceekay08,


I have the same question as raginangel08 - why was he wearing a wedding ring if he wasn't married?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 9:37am

Great advice..thank you!


I will definitely check out those books.


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:40am
So what are you going to do?

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