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He found someone who cares about him
| Tue, 05-06-2008 - 1:47pm |
Has anyone been thru this before??
He started up a "friendship" with another woman because she cares about him.

Well... Do you put him down? Or do you treat him well? It's okay to be critical and to voice your concerns as long as you remain respectful and kind to him. Obviously no relationship is perfect but I really get the sense from your post that you are trying to justify unkindness or negativity in your relationship. He's clearly not perfect either and has poor communication and conflict resolution skills.
Have you two considered marriage counseling? It sounds as though if you were able to TRULY talk to one another and communicate without feeling offended then he would not be focusing on how much better another woman is making him feel.
Hes gone to another woman's arms and you also want someone who thinks 'you are a catch' then D is the best way.If you had wanted to work out the cause and effect,that would be a different story.
I do treat him well, and I am good to him.
Welcome to the board sato1,
Is counseling an option for the both of you as a couple?
"Or is this his way of defusing guilt over what he did to me."
What did he do to you?
It sounds like the two of you could benefit from some marital counseling.