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He has made a confession
| Wed, 05-26-2004 - 2:37pm |
Me and my boyfriend been broken up for about 2 1\2 months. And we talked about 2 hours monday. I told him that I forgave him but have not forget (he stole some things from me,because of drug habit)I have moved on and a put that stuff behind me, because I can never change what happened,but learn from it and keep steppin. He told me that He really love me and he thought that the drugs and the job was not a big deal to him because I always accepted him as is and he took me forgranted that i would never leave him, he thought we would be together forever that's why he never changed. He told me that everybody told him to just leave me alone and he can't be with anyone else (he has been calling alot for the past 2 months,but I never answered none of them really)This is first real conversation we had since the break-up). He told me he couldn't listen to certain songs because they reminded him of me. He told me he was going to try to find a job and I told him "o.k we will see". He asked if he could come and see me that night even if I just stuck my head out the window he would be happy he just wanted to see my face. I told him no,because I'm not ready to see him and I don't want to move to fast. He asked if he could see me for my birthday take me out or whatever I told him I don't know. I really love him and he really love me and I know that for a fact!!! He told me that he was going to keep on trying until he get me back.He was not going to give up. My question is should leave things the way they are until he show he's put forth a effort meaning trying to get a job to get him self together, drugs etc. In the mean time do you also think I should let him see me for my birthday?

He has to come clean and turn his life around. If you are around at the end then you can see him and if you have found someone else it is too bad so sad.
You musn't give in because you will be caught in a vicious cycle of him trying to please you to get you back and then him going back to his old ways.
Good think you pitched in the towel - now keep on steppin! You deserve much more than someone who steals from you for a drug habit.
Be with friends on your birthday. And don't cave in. There are plenty more good guys who are ready now for you.
Everyone tells you to leave him alone and move on. Why did you put up with it for so long? Where is your self-esteem? Why not concentrate on that for a while instead of spending so much time analyzing his dysfunctional behavior.
Edited 6/2/2004 6:17 pm ET ET by ciao_gina