He has me soooo confused?

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Registered: 06-11-2008
He has me soooo confused?
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Tue, 06-17-2008 - 5:00pm
Ok, well I have posted before and things between him and I were rocky. Well, heres a little background. We were together for 9 months now and when we met he said he didn't want a relationship and I agreed and we just continued to see eachoter. About 4 months into it we had sex for the first time and he went completely soft about after 10 mins. The we had sex after that pretty regularly where it happened over and over, each time we ever had sex. Sometimes he would make excuses for himself, but it was something we didn't talk about.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 5:15pm
Yes the best thing is no contact. If he wants to contact you he will. He was probably just embarrassed/defensive that you brought up the sex issue. He probably feels bad about it and feels it is an attack on his manhood or something.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 12:57pm

milley22222,


Please leave this guy alone.

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Registered: 06-19-2006
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 1:10pm

Milley,


First of all DO NOT CALL HIM I know it's very difficult I've been threw the same situation if you keep calling after they told you to back off they will treat you more and more like crap and tell you things that are hurtful. Basically that's what he's doing right now.

Munchkin

 

LiveLaughLove
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Registered: 05-11-2008
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 6:16pm
Hmm, well I am going to go with the other answers and say NO CONTACT!
The man is insecure and appears to be a bit of a child in an adult body. He is so insecure he thinks and uses the excuse that you deserve better than him, and you know what, you do. Because, darling sounds to me like for a bit of the relationship you became what I like to call "a friend with benefits." And your pushiness and insecurity of needing to be with him is causing him to be more distant to you. It's not really my place to tell you who to be with though, so if you do want this man Hun, than you need to back off his case and let the man be. If you smother him and push him into being with you than he will surely push away more, let him miss everything about you and your relationship with him. It's exactly like that old saying,


"If you let a butterfly go and it comes back to you, it is really yours and you will keep it forever. However, if it never comes back to you, it wasn't yours to begin with."


I hope I helped some, if not my apologies. GOOD LUCK!!







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