He is having a baby with someone else...
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He is having a baby with someone else...
| Wed, 01-28-2004 - 10:24pm |
I am at a crossroads and have no clue what to do. I am engaged to a wonderful man. I love him with all my heart. We have a connection that is hard to describe. In fact, after 4 months we got engaged and moved in together. Sounds perfect, huh?? Not even close... We had been together for about a month when he found out that a girl he hooked up with a few times was pregnant with his child. He begged me to stay with him, promising me that he loved me and not her. I agreed, I love him and would not turn my back on him in a situation of this magnitude. Well, I was okay with things at first, but now I am losing it. I am completely driving myself crazy. I think it is for good reason. He is attending all doctor's visits with her, and with that I am okay. He recently had dinner with her family to discuss the baby and what they wanted to do about custody, still kind of okay. Today I found out that he has neglected to tell her that we are living together. I was always so sure that she knew about me and the fact that we were together, but I am questioning it now. I asked him to meet her because in all actuality, when we get married I am going to be this child's step mother. He won't agree, he doesn't think I have any business meeting her. I don't know what to do... I want to be with him, but I am afraid that there is more to their relationship than he is letting on. I need help, I need to be certain that all the things he is doing is for the sake of the baby and not for the sake of her. So please, help me... thanks.

Jennifer
"Oh, that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evi
Heather
You are going to have to decide what is best for you. Him keeping this a secret from her, thinking you have no business meeting her, yet you live together, not cool. I'd RUN from this man.
Carrie