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He mainly keeps me and his friends separate (after one year)....
| Tue, 03-13-2012 - 2:21pm |
So, we've decided to break it off.
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I think you made a good decision to move on, and I don't see that any of the problems lay with you, other than your exaggerated patience with an unsatisfactory relationship.
The engineer didn't make you happy; he was too career-driven and too self-absorbed to give you what you want and need in a relationship.
hah!
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Your X sounds like how my husband was with all of his previous girlfriends before me.
Yes, this is very true.
Something else to remember "red flag" wise........when a guy says "I'm not ready", that's manspeak for "you're not the 'one', I really care about you, but it's not going to be permanent."
There are many stories here, and I've them in real life, when a woman is with a man for a year or two years, or even more......sometimes living together........she will pester him to get married, and he will keep telling her he's not ready.
RE: <<when a guy says "I'm not ready", that's manspeak for "you're not the 'one', I really care about you, but it's not going to be permanent.">>
I think it's true of women also.