He may be a cheater
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He may be a cheater
| Sun, 09-26-2004 - 8:12pm |
My bf and I broke up this past July. We let a month pass and dated other people, but shortly after that month we started seeing one another again (dating but nothing serious). We've been seeing one another about once every week or so since August (in order to build the friendship and see if we're meant to start over again), and we've been honest with one another about who we've dated and what we've done with the other person. I found out that he met a girl offline and slept with her on the 2nd date. He claims that it was a mistake and that he doesn't talk to her, yet she's still on his buddy list (I know who the girl is-she's from his area) and I saw it on there the other day when I was over his house. As of right now, he told me that we are "together but taking it slow." If that is the case, why is he still in contact with the girl he slept with? Could it be he's still sleeping with her on the side? I'm really hurt about this and upset, yet don't want to confront him because I don't want to appear needy. Could it be that this means we're not exclusive?

I would focus on clarifying whether you are exclusive rather than confronting him about the buddy list. The mere fact that she's on there doesn't mean that he's still talking to her, let alone that they are sleeping together, in any case.
Sheri
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