He needs a break.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2008
He needs a break.....
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Sun, 05-18-2008 - 1:28pm

Hello!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Sun, 05-18-2008 - 4:20pm

Pretty hard to believe that this is an isolated incident, despite your assertion that you never fight.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 05-18-2008 - 7:46pm

Welcome to the board shoelove,


Even if this is your first fight, even if this is the first time you 'let him have it' verbally - "He has been thinking, and he

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 05-18-2008 - 10:23pm

I agree with you that it's tough to believe this is isolated... Perhaps if he is the kind of guy to internalize most of the conflicts in his life rather than publicize them to anyone then this is not terribly surprising, but it is unfortunate that he's come to the "I need space" conclusion before saying anything about it sooner.

I will suggest that perhaps he is having a serious problem with the distance, which is understandable even if you get to see one another often, shoelove. I do hope that he comes back and is ready to go at it again, sadly right now you're kind of at the mercy of time and there's not much you can do right now. Best of luck to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 6:17am

ah, but we are dealing with assumptions, are we not?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 7:06am
All I can say is that it's tough to do this job without assuming the OP is telling the truth, unless there are some blatant mismatches in information. I agree that asking if this really is an isolated incident is best in this scenario.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 10:31am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 11:10pm

Just an update....

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 5:38am
I guess we are not going to get any clarification as to why you would go off on him being hungover.