He needs time to think?!?!?

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Registered: 10-14-2008
He needs time to think?!?!?
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Tue, 10-14-2008 - 4:34pm

Ok so I'm going to keep this as short as i possibly can. I need some advice badly!


My uh um boyfriend/ exboyfriend/best friend and i broke up 3 months ago. We were together for almost 2 years. We had hit some rough patches in Feb. We had started growing apart because of the problems. We broke our relationship off in July. He moved out of our apartment and I stayed. We tried being "friends" but realized that we really do still love each other and the reasons for breaking up were mostly pretty silly. Still regradless we broke up. Recently we started talking again about trying to make "us" happen. We both tried dating other people but have been miserable without each other. We talked things over, he came over last night to the apartment and we were doing well. Cried and laughed and told each other how much we loved each other and wanted to make it work. We have a few hurdles to over come but wanted to really give this a shot since we both truly love oneanother.


this mornign he calls me to tell me he wants to think about things, apparently his heart and saying yes but his brain is saying maybe or maybe no? He needs time to think but im going insane. What do i do? Please i need advice anything will help!

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 4:40pm
Did you talk thoroughly about why it would work this time? You didn't go into detail
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 5:28pm
Ciao_gina is right.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 10:35pm

Welcome to the board fribabe17,


Could be he acted on getting back together during a weak moment and is now having second thoughts.